Brynn Bishop, Trauma-Informed Intimacy Coach, Tantra Educator & Attachment Re-Patterning Specialist
Q. What’s Unique About Working With You?
A. Unlike traditional talk therapy, the cutting-edge modalities I use access your body’s wisdom and actually re-wire your brain towards greater safety, relaxation, connection, and pleasure. Drawing from Tantra, Somatic Psychotherapy and Healthy Attachment Re-Patterning my holistic approach addresses all levels of your being: emotional, cognitive, energetic, sexual and spiritual.
It’s so rewarding to witness the transformations my clients experience as they heal the life-long underlying causes that have unconsciously dictated their intimacy challenges.
My clients often tell me they have been in therapy for years and are amazed at the profound shifts they experience working with me in a relatively short amount of time. They often exclaim that they would have saved years of frustration, time and money had they found me years ago!
Just last week in the second session with a new client couple, Jan declared with tears in her eyes, “I’ve been in therapy my whole adult life, and no one has ever gotten me like you!” Her husband Ben agreed, “You just nailed our relationship dynamics!”
After each layer of work, my clients often remark how much lighter they feel, how liberated they feel from the particular issue we’ve been working on, and how much more empowered they feel to create the connection they have been longing for.
Q. Can anyone benefit from working with you?
A. No. This work is not for everyone.
If you prefer to analyze than to experience, then you may find my approach challenging. My style of work isn’t best suited for those who have a hard time being present or who can’t easily track sensations in their body or articulate what they are feeling. Nor is it a good match for those who struggle with follow through.
We’re probably not a good match if you’re looking for a quick fix, but aren’t really committed to your transformation. Also if you are more committed to defending your position than to creating greater understanding and connection with your partner, then you won’t get far with me. ; )
Q. Who can benefit the most?
A. You will most benefit from working with me if you:
Are open-minded and willing to grow Have a developed capacity for self-awareness and honest self reflection Can articulate your experience without blame (most of the time) Are ready to shift limiting patterns and embody new possibilities Are willing to risk being vulnerable and authentic Are committed to implementing what you learn to create lasting transformation in your intimate life.
Q. How do you work? What can I expect?
A. You can expect our work together to be a synthesis of education, healing, coaching and mentorship.
My premium packages are customized to meet you exactly where you are to give you the exact tools, insights, and skills you need to release blocks and achieve greater freedom, aliveness, confidence, connection and fulfillment.
Based entirely on where you are, the results you desire, and what needs to be addressed to get you there, your program may include a variety of aspects to best support you.
Often this includes healing and transforming the core wounds and unconscious limiting beliefs at the root of your challenges. (Read more about this process in my article on HARP.)
Many of my clients gain invaluable understanding of their own and their partner’s attachment styles and how to better support each other. My clients regularly learn tools to communicate more effectively, feel more listened to, honored and connected.
Whatever the content, you can expect to be guided through experiential processes during our sessions. You will not just be talking about your issues or intentions.
That said, it’s important to note that all sessions are fully clothed and no explicit sexual activity takes place in session.
You can expect to gain invaluable insight and perspective. You will learn powerful tools to shift limiting patterns, build resiliency in your nervous system and transform what’s been holding you back from creating the quality and consistency of intimacy you desire (emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual).
Q. What kind of results can I expect?
A. My clients frequently report feeling:
- More comfortable and confident in their own skin
- Less anxious
- More relaxed, resilient and content
- Greater self love and sense of worthiness
- A more honoring relationship with their sexuality
- Newfound levels of trust, safety, and authenticity
- An increased ability to be present in their body with themselves and their lover
- Greater capacity to receive and feel nourished
- A deeper understanding of their erotic nature – what uniquely ignites their desire and deeply feeds their body, heart and soul
- An empowered VOICE: Greater agency to ask for what they want and set limits around what doesn’t work for them
- More understood, appreciated and cherished
- More playfulness, creativity, adventure, connection and fulfillment
- More exuberance, wholeness and happiness
- Sexier and more desirable
But I’ll let my clients speak for themselves:
“Brynn, the power of your body-centered healing modalities has helped me in ways that years of standard, couple, and group therapies did not. Your unique approach and presence provided healing to the emotional blockages that were inhibiting my ability to connect to deep, sustained love, intimacy, and companionship. Thank you!”
– Mark
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“Amazing and profound shift in exploring and reclaiming my sexuality! I was amazed that in just a handful of sessions I was much more confident, ready and ABLE to “show up” in my life in a way I never dreamed possible without years of work.
I am now powerfully connected to myself, my body, my deepest desires . Because of working with Brynn, I’ve said good-bye to layers of shame, guilt and ‘pleasure anxiety.’”
– Laurie
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“Before working with you, our intimacy was predictable and our different levels of libido created frustration for me in my desire to be more erotic and adventurous in our lovemaking. And we were working on re-building trust and releasing guilt and shame.
The intentional space you created for us to explore some of our deepest feelings – and explore breathing and touch in a way that we had not done so previously – has been incredibly helpful. This has allowed us to begin to open up communication and give ourselves permission to share our feelings. And it has opened up new erotic enjoyment.
Each exercise you introduced us to brought insights around giving and receiving and exploration – articulating and sharing permission and learning how to share feedback on and ask for touch. We now have a tool box of different ways to explore and enhance our intimacy and communication.”
– Charlie
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“I want to say a huge thank you for guiding us on our journey to closer intimacy and wholeness. You helped me see my partner with greater understanding and compassion. I feel a huge shift in my appreciation of him and notice so much more aliveness in my body.”
– Jackie
Q. I’m nervous about the cost of premium programs. How can I justify this kind of expense?
A. I get it! The first time I made the decision to hire a healer/therapist/coach, I was so nervous. I’ve done it several times now, each time making a bigger investment with someone who I knew would be exactly what I needed at that stage in my growth. It always makes me nervous to invest in myself in this way – but I have never, ever regretted it. Usually I wish I had done it years before. Why? Because my growth becomes exponential!
The truth is it cost me more NOT to hire them. When I think of all the years I struggled with my issues, trying to figure it out on my own. And how much of my life was affected by my struggles – my relationship (or lack there of!), my self worth and confidence, even how I showed up at work – were all limited by my patterns I couldn’t break free of on my own.
What I’ve seen over and over again is that when you make a commitment to what you want, when you align with what most matters to you – the Universe will rearrange itself to support you – in ways we can’t even imagine!
Amazing things happen from that deceptively simple, but powerful decision.
What my clients discover is that when you invest in yourself, you are not “spending money.” You are investing in your results. Like my coach says, money engages the energy of commitment. When you commit with money, you go “all in.” And the return on investment lasts a lifetime. To spend money is to fill a void with a quick fix. To invest in yourself is to change your whole life.
Q. How much time will it take before I get results?
A. That of course is quite individual. It depends a lot on how much work you’ve done previously, how much self awareness you bring to the table, and how motivated you are to do the work to achieve the results you desire.
I’ve had clients who made significant progress within 6 weeks of getting started. For others, it’s a slow and steady process.
You will be shifting some life long habits and patterns. You will be doing deep, transformational work. It’s a process. Much like peeling the layers of an onion. And you will be establishing new, healthy habits. Like any new habit, commitment, dedication and practice are key.
What I can tell you is that my clients begin reaping tremendous benefit from the first session. The insights and new perspectives are game changers. The tools, powerful. What opens up for them is life changing.
Q. Will I have access to you between sessions?
A. Yes. You have unlimited email access to me throughout your program. My clients tell me how helpful it is to know that I am here for you, that I’ve got your back and will support you through any rough patches, and celebrate your victories and breakthroughs.
Q. I have a few questions for you. Can I talk with you on the phone?
A. I’d love that! As a matter of fact, I have a few questions for you, too! 🙂
Let’s set up a complimentary clarity call where we can talk for about 30 minutes. We’ll explore what you are wanting support with in your intimate life. I’ll help you get clarity on what you most desire and what the next steps would be. And I’ll share more about how I work and answer any of your questions. Doing so will give both of us a better feel for whether we’re a good fit.